He does like expensive brands, but that doesn’t mean that you have to break out designer duds all the time. It’s more important to wear clean, well-maintained clothes that fit your body well. Stick to neutral or muted colors, which he prefers to anything bright and bold. If you usually wear makeup, keep it minimal around him. He’s not necessarily one for dramatic or bold looks.
If you dream of being a mother someday, tell him about it! You don’t have to worry about scaring him off—Virgos tend to look forward to starting a family as well, so chances are you’re on the same page.
It’s also a great way to strike up that first conversation if you’ve never really spoken to him before. For example, if he’s a computer science major, you might ask him about a particularly sticky problem you keep having with your computer. As a practical Earth sign, Virgo men also tend to be good with their hands, so don’t hesitate to ask if he can take a look at that wobbly chair or the leaky faucet in your bathroom.
At the same time, you don’t want to be too pushy—although that shouldn’t be a problem for a guarded crab. Try gently suggesting something fun, such as a concert or a trip to a local museum, and he’ll be game.
Keep this in mind any time you’re planning something for the two of you to do together. He tends to be introverted (which you can likely understand as a Cancer), so he’s going to need time to recharge after a raucous party or a night at a dance club. [3] X Expert Source Jessica LanyadooAstrologer & Psychic Medium Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.
Keep in mind that Virgos tend to be pretty shy as well, so he’s not one who wants to be the center of attention. He’s not going to be attracted to the loud, bold type—not that Cancers have the reputation for that anyway.
For example, if you volunteer to serve food at a local homeless shelter, invite him along with you—he’ll love helping out and really appreciate that you’re right there with him. Cancers are nurturing types, so it’s likely you work with some sort of organization that helps the downtrodden or defenseless, such as an animal shelter or a children’s charity.
This is really easy if you happen to go to school together. Just ask him about his favorite classes or talk to him about your latest research project. You might also ask him about the last book he read, or talk about your favorite book that you’ve read recently. Virgos also tend to love in-depth documentaries.
If something happens and you’re going to be late or need to reschedule, text him as soon as possible and let him know. Show that you’re respectful of his time and don’t want to keep him waiting and he’ll love that.
When he does start talking about his feelings, listen and ask questions to encourage him to open up more. If you interrupt him or make light of what he’s saying, he’ll think twice before he shares his emotions with you again.
This is also a good way to get him to open up. Virgo guys tend to have a hard time expressing their emotions, but sharing a beloved possession with him gives him an opening to share something of his own.
If you’re crafty, you might make him something yourself—he’ll treasure it forever if he knows that you created it especially for him.
