You’ll know that he’s feeling closer to you when he starts to confide in you beyond his usual jokes and clever comments. He might also seem anxious or tongue-tied in your presence—which is unusual for a chatty Gemini.
Rather than saying exactly where you grew up, say, “I’m from a little town in the south. What about you?” When you’re texting a Gemini, leave him on a (positive) cliffhanger from time to time. “I’ve gotta go run some errands. Remind me to tell you that story some other time! 😉”
Geminis are rarely picky when it comes to humor. If you find a joke funny, he probably will, too!
“Have you ever listened to this podcast before? There are some wild stories on it! Listen to this episode, and then we’ll talk about it. " “Fun fact of the day! Did you know that a single cloud weighs about 1. 1 million pounds?”
Ask him thought-provoking questions like “If you could go anywhere, where would you visit?” and “What’s the coolest thing that’s ever happened to you?” Talk about your favorite books, movies, and hobbies. He’ll be fascinated and eager to share his ideas on those subjects. Send him a topical news story and ask for his opinion. Be willing to discuss your own thoughts, too.
Surprise gifts don’t have to be grand and expensive. It can be as simple as bringing over his favorite homemade snack or remembering his coffee order and picking up a cup without telling him. Don’t be afraid to alter your plans with him at the last minute if a great idea comes to you. He won’t mind the change—it’ll probably excite him.
Tailor your adventures to his interests. Bring him to a museum with a cool new exhibition if he’s into art. If he likes nature, find a hiking trail with a spectacular view. If his favorite band is in town, grab tickets. Ask him to go on a weekend trip with you and pick a lively place with plenty of new activities for him to do. Tell him about any cool travel experiences you’ve had, too; he’s impressed by worldly people.
Make plans outside of your relationship and try not to change them around for him. Just tell him you’re busy and offer an alternative date. He won’t be offended; it’ll make you seem more desirable because your time is limited.
Try flirts like, “Wow, you look hotter than the bottom of my laptop!” or “Do you know CPR? You’re taking my breath away!” If you’re successfully winning your Gemini’s heart, he’ll flirt back—often. He won’t be able to stop himself from teasing you whenever a catchy line pops into his head.
Say something like, “I really like you. Wanna go out with me sometime?” “You’re so fun to be around, and I think we get along really well. Would you want to have lunch with me this week?”
When he seems upset, ask if he’d like a distraction. Text him funny memes to make him smile, or tell him an entertaining story that’ll lift his spirits. If he’s comfortable around you, he might decide to talk about his negative feelings. In that case, focus on being compassionate and encouraging to cheer him up.
Try some dirty talk if you’re comfortable with it. Because he’s ruled by the planet of communication, Gemini will be just as chatty in bed as he is normally. Gemini’s adventurous and spontaneous spirit means that he has very few limits in the bedroom, so there’s no need to be shy or hold back around him.
