In his mind, his work ethic is his most prized virtue. Mention it and you’ve found a way directly into his heart. He wants nothing more than to be admired for his focus and drive.
For example, you might say, “Hey, I really like spending time with you. Wanna grab lunch sometime?” If you have something special coming up, you might invite him along. He’ll definitely enjoy getting to know you better through something you like. This doesn’t mean you want to push him. Keep it casual and let the relationship bloom in its own time. Rest assured a Capricorn will do everything in his power to build a strong foundation that will keep you two stable in the future. You really need to cut to the chase with a Capricorn. Ask him directly what you need or want!
For example, you might say, “My company just offered me a promotion, but I’m not sure the added responsibility is worth the extra money. Would you mind taking a look at it and giving me your thoughts?” Issues involving your career or your direction in life are areas where he’ll likely be strongest and most comfortable guiding you. He’s proud of his work ethic and goal-oriented lifestyle and feels he has a lot to offer here. Keep in mind that his advice is likely to be very practical and utilitarian. If you tend to be more artsy and whimsical (and many Libras are!), you might not be the biggest fan of what he has to say. Capricorns are very practical about the people they care about, and will be happy to offer help if you ask for it.
Traditional femininity extends beyond your attire to your behavior as well. Ever the gentleman, the Capricorn guy will open doors and pull out chairs for you. Accept his chivalry with ladylike grace and poise. Manners and social protocol also tend to be very important to Capricorn guys. As long as you’re always polite, he’ll be proud to spend time with you.
For example, if he’s frustrated about a coworker and convinced their project will be a bust, you might remind him how he always comes through in a pinch and assure him that he’ll get the work done that needs to be done.
For example, you might say, “So, where are we going to dinner on Friday night?” This tells him that he’s in charge and you’re content to go along with his decision. If you have ideas for things you want to do, suggest them in a subtle way, then let him make the final plans. For example, you might say, “I heard there’s a new impressionist exhibit at the gallery downtown. That’s always been my favorite style—I’d love to go. "
Treat feelings and emotions as serious and important things as well. Give them gravity instead of tossing them out in an offhand or joking way. If you’re after an exclusive commitment or looking forward to being a wife and mother, it will thrill him to hear you talk about that.
For example, if you tell him that you want to start a new exercise program, he’ll naturally expect you to start immediately. If you don’t actually start for several months, he might start to think you don’t mean what you say. With a more creative project, remember to give him updates on steps you’re taking towards your overall goal. He’ll be impressed with how you break it down into manageable chunks so you can make steady progress.
When he does tell you how he feels, treat what he says seriously and respond in kind. He’ll be relieved to know that you aren’t taking things lightly. Keep in mind that Capricorns are very practical about their love, and he may not express his affection in a “mushy” way.
For example, Libra ladies tend to be more clingy than a Capricorn would normally like. But if you state clearly the type of reassurance you need from him, he’ll know what he needs to do. And since you have the reassurance you need, you won’t feel as though you have to cling to him—a win-win for your relationship! You might say, “I know you need your space, but when I’m apart from you I worry. Could you text me occasionally to let me know I’m on your mind?”
Projects with a short scope and duration, like putting together a piece of furniture, are great to take on early in your relationship so you can learn to work together as a team. Generally, it works best if you put your artistic sensibilities to work on the aesthetics of the project while he takes on a more utilitarian, workhorse role.
For example, if you both enjoy reading, you might suggest that you both read the same book and discuss it together. An intellectual Goat will enjoy that level of conversation and it’ll give you a little break from the boring routine. If you’re both fairly active and sporty, you might try a new sport together. Learning something new together will strengthen your bond.
