This doesn’t mean you need to be aloof or someone you’re not. Just be intentional. Send her a text about an album you just listened to that you know she’ll like or respond to her Instagram story with congratulations when she posts about an accomplishment at work.

Surprise her! If you’re taking her to see her favorite band in concert, don’t give her all the details right away. Make sure she’s free, let her know what time you’re picking her up and leave the rest to her imagination. She’ll appreciate the thought you put in and your attentiveness to her interests.

Consider teaching her some traditional family recipes or tell her more about one of your hobbies. Your passion will be what’s most attractive to her.

If you’re an introvert, this might be a bit out of your comfort zone. That’s okay. She doesn’t expect you to match her exact energy. Mingle in small groups or ask the host at a dinner party if you can help with preparing anything. Friendliness goes a long way!

Honesty also extends outside of romance. If you disagree with something she says while she’s trying to make an argument, you don’t have to just nod along. Tell her why. (Respectfully, of course. ) She’ll admire your ability to express yourself, and teach her something new.

Be able to laugh at yourself! Sagittarians are known for being one of the funniest signs in the Zodiac, so she not only wants to know she can laugh with you but also that you can be totally yourself around her.

Try taking her to the farmer’s market or a picnic in the park on a sunny Saturday afternoon. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. Just find different ways to spend quality time.

Ask her about her favorite book! Sagittarians are your typical bookworms, and they love any excuse to take a walk down memory lane (their colossal bookshelf). Share your favorite book, and tell her why you love it, especially if there’s a good story attached.

Don’t be afraid to ask questions. She’s happy to explain, and she’ll love your curiosity.

Passion is super important to her, so allowing tension to build is the key to winning over this Sagittarius woman. Focus on physical touch, which is one of her primary love languages.