For example, if he reads comic books, you might find out what shops he frequents and become a regular at the same places. You might get clues from his social media. You could also ask mutual friends about him and find out from them what some of his interests are.
T-shirts or hoodies that advertise your dedication to a particular cause are winners for him too—he’ll love that you’re committed to saving the world, because he is too. That bright striped sweater that you wear with everything, even if it clashes? He probably loves it just as much as you do because it’s part of who you are.
Because both of you are at ease in cultivating friendships, it won’t be at all difficult to start a relationship with him this way. Friendship also allows the two of you to get to know each other better without a lot of pressure.
For example, you might tell him about your dream of one day buying a large tract of land where you and all of your friends can work and create together communally, living in tree houses connected by swinging bridges. He’ll be entranced by your idealism, your love of your friends, and your dedication to helping others. You’ve likely often felt misunderstood when you talk about your dreams—perhaps others have mocked your fantasy world. You don’t need to worry about that with this Aquarian. He’s felt the same way, and the two you can bond over this like kindred spirits.
Ask him plenty of questions to encourage him to flesh out his ideas more for you. This also helps you learn more about him and how his mind works. It’s likely you’ll end up using some of his ideas for inspiration—don’t hesitate to let him know! He’ll be thrilled that you took something from his mind and expanded it into something new and different on your own.
Your easygoing nature also works well for him because he’s not exactly the most organized and disciplined guy out there—he likes that you don’t give him grief about it.
Let him know that you want to get to know his friends—he’ll be thrilled and he’ll know that you’re really interested in him. You might go on group outings together as well. That way, his friends will get to spend time with the two of you as a couple and see how wonderful the two of you are together.
As you chat, you’re inevitably going to discover a particular cause that you both feel passionate about. Contact local organizers and find out how you can help! The two of you will feel great about doing something to better the world and you’ll grow closer doing it together.
If he starts to get a little withdrawn or irritated, that’s a sure sign that he would rather be doing something else. Try not to take it personally (especially if you’re just doing something alone together)—instead, just ask him what he wants to do. You might ask, “Is there something else you’d rather be doing right now?” Listen to his response and if it’s something you can make happen, let him know that he should go do it.
A few well-placed hints can help him understand the kind of romance you’re interested in. For example, you might suggest a stroll in the park one evening. As you reach for his hand, you might comment about how romantic it is and how happy it makes you. He’ll get the message.
This certainly isn’t a dealbreaker issue. It can be as simple as visiting a new place or trying out a new art form. Even though you can be shy, Pisces, you might try enrolling the two of you in an improv class—it’ll appeal to his zany sense of humor.
