You could say, “You and I clearly need to get away from all these people. Buy you a drink?” If you’ve got his number, don’t hesitate to send a flirty text. For instance, say, “Tell the truth. How long have you been waiting for a text from me?”
You don’t have to dress like you’re going to a black-tie event, but ensure that your clothes are neat and clean. You may want to accessorize with some eyecatching jewelry, too. Libras like romantic or fashionable looks. For instance, you might wear a lace top with a neutral-colored blazer and fitted slacks or a skirt.
If you’re really not a fan of going out, ask a close friend to come out with you. Sometimes, hanging out in a group makes it easier to catch someone’s eye.
Not sure what to do? Pick his brain for ideas—say, “What’s something you’ve always wanted to do or try, but never gotten around to?”
You might say something like, “I can’t believe you don’t know how to ice skate! We’ve got to do something about that. " Don’t know what to teach? Offer to learn something new together. You could say, “I’ve always wanted to take dance lessons. Want to learn how to salsa?”
For instance, instead of asking standard questions like “How was your day?” or “What are your favorite movies?” get the conversation started with a more interesting question like, “What was the craziest thing that happened to you today?” or, “If you could choose anywhere in the world to be right now, where would you be?”
It’s fine to say you’ve already got plans if he asks you out. However, don’t shoot him down every time or he will move on. For example, if he asks you out without a lot of notice, you could say, “Oh, I wish you had asked me sooner. I’m going out with girlfriends tonight. Maybe we could meet up tomorrow?”
Don’t be surprised if he introduces you to his friends like this, “Guys, this is Janey. She’s studying to be a clinical psychologist,” or, “Let me introduce you to Alex. Alex just completed her first half-marathon over the weekend. "
For instance, you might say, “You’re a great conversationalist. Do you know that? You really put people at ease,” or, “You make me feel like the most special woman in the room. How do you do it?”
For instance, you might say, “I love the way you smile at me,” or, “I always get goosebumps when I see you walk across the room. " It’s completely fine if you’re a little awkward when you open up. He’ll see that you’re vulnerable and he’ll appreciate that you’re making an effort to share your emotions.
Remember, each of you brings different strengths to your relationship. Appreciate your Libra’s desire for harmony and his compassionate nature.
