Run the room. Tell jokes to the group, greet everyone at the party, kill it on the dancefloor, and just generally be a ton of fun. Project confidence when the two of you interact. Hold your Leo crush’s gaze, maintain great posture, and use hand gestures while you speak.
First, grab his interest. Send him a flirty text, approach him at a party, or tell a friend you think he’s cute (then have that friend “let it slip” to your Leo crush). Next, pull your attention back. Wait a few hours to respond to his texts, flirt with another party attendee, or duck out of your conversation with him early. Now, wait for him to chase you. By playing hard to get, you’ll have him completely charmed.
“You’re ridiculously hot. I can’t believe how muscular your arms are! I’m so into it. ” “I’m so attracted to you. Your smile makes me feel completely weak in the knees. ” “I love your broad chest. Your body really turns me on. ”
“You’re the best kisser of anyone I’ve ever been with. ” “I can’t believe how good you are at this. ” “You touch me exactly how I want to be touched. How do you know how to do that so well?”
“Hey, here’s a thought. Before we have sex, could I offer you a quick back massage? I learned this great technique from a friend last year. ” “That was so fun. I’d love to make you feel taken care of right now. What would you say if I offered you a quick back massage?”
Try a little light teasing. “What are you doing all the way on the other side of the room? Are you scared or something?” Playfully bite his arm. Make sure this is a light bite. When he looks at you in surprise, just smile back to create a silly mood. Include play-fighting and wrestling to spice things up during foreplay.
Talk through the decision to try power play together. Discuss honestly and without judgment. Create a safe word. Choose a word that you wouldn’t normally say during sex, like “hat. " During sex, if one of you says “hat,” you stop immediately. Continue to check in on how both of you are feeling during your hookup. Ongoing consent is an absolute must.
Before he communicates his likes and dislikes, keep your touches light. Ask him directly what he enjoys most. Should you scratch harder, bite lighter, or touch him in a certain place? If he expresses hesitancy or an outright dislike for anything you do, stop immediately.
Talk about what he’s doing. Talk about what you’re doing. Explain what you’re feeling. Talk through what you’d like to do. Talk through any physical sensations in your body or signs of physical arousal you see on his body.
Meet up in a fancy hotel room. Drink champagne, eat delicious chocolates, and spend all day in your robes. Dabble in new sexual experiences. Try role-play, stripteases, and temperature play. Use sex toys to spice things up. The two of you could visit your local sex shop and pick out a vibrator that you’re both excited about.
“Hey, I was thinking…maybe we could take a camping trip up to McGregor next weekend? I feel like we’d have fun together outdoors. . . ” “What would you say to a camping trip around Big Sur this weekend? I could pack that outfit you love…”
