In a 24-hour window, you might exercise, set goals for yourself, clean your room, or finish that assignment you’ve been putting off. Every day, do at least one thing to improve yourself.
This is one thing you could start practicing in 24 hours! Give it a shot by calling a girl you know and just trying to have a conversation with her without giving her special treatment.
By putting your desire to land a girl on the backburner, you’ll stop simping while getting closer to your goal! Enjoy your time with your friends and family. Those relationships will keep you from feeling like you need to go get a girlfriend at this exact moment.
One way to start doing this is to try saying yes to every invitation and suggestion. This will give people the impression that you’re super laid back.
This will also help you find the girl of your dreams. The woman out there who is authentically attracted to you for you is going to be a much better partner than someone who only knows some version of you.
Under no condition should you continue pursuing a girl if she has explicitly told you to stop.
Simps tend to seek out attention from other people—especially women. It makes them feel wanted. Stop looking to other people for validation and learn how to be happy on your own.
The same goes for bullies. If someone tries bullying you, ignore them, laugh it off, and tell them to stop being such a jerk.
This is the best way to find your soulmate. If you don’t put on an act, you’ll be able to find someone who likes you for you.
A lot of people (especially rude guys) will call people who are friendly and reasonable a simp. If someone in your life is leveling this criticism at you, laugh it off and tell them to get a life. So long as you’re making a conscious decision to treat people with kindness and you aren’t manipulating anyone by being artificially nice, you aren’t a simp. [12] X Research source
