Basic conversation starters work great! You might ask him about his favorite place, his favorite books or music, anything that will get him going. He loves talking about ideas, hopes, and dreams—he’s a little more abstract in his approach than you might be, but you’ll find lots to talk about. The fact that you have differences makes your conversations more lively and interesting.

For example, if you know that he’s a tech guy, you might ask him to give you a hand in building a website for your new blog or business. He’ll be fascinated by your drive and ambition and want to stay connected to you.

Pisces guys are often very creative as well. If he’s an artist or musician, express interest in his work! He’ll definitely want to keep you close if you gush over his creations.

Something in a classic style will appeal to your own fashion sense as well. Choose something you can wear as a signature piece whenever you’re around him.

Sagittarius is a Fire sign, which means you’re a pretty active, energetic woman. If this date feels a little too mellow for your taste, you might consider going fruit picking. Many farms offer this during the harvest season and it can be a fun date. Pisces is also interested in music, art, and culture. Set up a date for a concert, gallery opening, or museum if that’s more your style.

For example, if you’re going on a date, you might plan to meet him at a café or pub, then talk about places you might go from there. Something might come up that you both think is interesting. Giving yourselves freedom lets you take advantage of experiences that you might just happen upon. You might try a walk around a neighborhood together just to see what catches your eye.

This doesn’t mean you have to choose between being honest and sparing his feelings—you just need to learn a little tact. Say the two of you have just finished a garlic-heavy dinner and he goes in for a kiss. Rather than blurting out, “Your breath stinks,” you might pull out some mints and say, “After that delicious dinner, I think we could both probably use a little freshening up. "

He’ll be more attracted to you if he knows he can trust you to be loyal to him and forgiving of his faults.

Let him know that he can always talk to you—he’ll appreciate that you’re interested in helping him out and that you want to support him.

If the two of you have been seeing each other for a while, you might even spring for a weekend couple’s getaway.

Ultimately, the two of you might even decide that you would prefer to maintain an open relationship. You’re generally open to non-exclusive arrangements, although you need to make sure you both trust each other before you try to go that route.