Say something like, “Has anyone ever told you that you’re trouble?” or, “You are hilarious. I think you’re going right over the heads of almost everyone here. "
For instance, you could say, “I don’t know if you follow the news, but have you heard what’s been happening in New Zealand?” or, “What’s your take on Brexit?” There’s a pretty good chance that your Gemini guy will love showing off what he knows! If you really want to get on his good side, ask him to tell you more about what he’s passionate about. Your intellectual connection is probably one of the biggest things that attracts you two. This is why it’s so important to open up and talk with your Gemini guy.
For instance, if you don’t know him well, ask, “So, what was the best thing that happened to you today?” or “What motivates you?” If you know him pretty well, you could ask, “Who are you closest to in your family?” or, “What relationships do you value the most?”
If your style never seems to change, check out the latest trends, so you can catch his eye. For example, swap out your usual blouse with slacks for an oversized green blazer, a skirt, and a fun floral top. As a Virgo, you’re probably not into wearing bold red outfits very often, but definitely avoid wearing them around your guy. Red can make a Gemini feel restless or agitated.
For instance, as a Virgo, you might feel like you need to plan every aspect of a date, down to the hour. Instead of doing this, just meet up and see where the evening takes you. Not sure what to do on a date? Put him in charge! Make a point of saying yes and go along for the ride. For example, he might take you dancing, to a cool new museum, or to a hip new food cart.
For example, if he’s outdoorsy, he might offer to take you camping or out for a ride on his boat. Before you can second-guess yourself, just say yes! He might want to do something like take a martial arts class or pottery class for instance. Don’t stress about committing to it for the long term—say yes and try at least a class or two. You might be pleasantly surprised.
To keep up your air of mystery, don’t reveal all your secrets at once. He’ll see getting to know you as a challenge that he wants to undertake. For example, you might be really sweet and affectionate one night and challenging or flirty the next. Keep him on his toes to catch his attention.
For instance, tell him your goals, dreams, and plans. He’ll probably be super impressed and supportive if you tell him that you’re studying to get your dream job. Show him what you’re working on whether it’s a painting, something you’re growing, or a story you’re writing.
If you’re planning a date, don’t take him out to just one place like dinner, drinks, or a movie. Instead, think of multiple places to go so he doesn’t get bored. You might start with coffee at a cafe, play disc golf at a park, grab dinner from a food cart, and finish at a club for music and drinks. Ask him about things he’s always wanted to do. Then, surprise him by suggesting that you two try a thing or two from his list.
The great thing about being with a Gemini is that he can challenge you to live in the moment. If you’re starting to feel stressed out, take a deep breath and remind yourself to go with the flow. Give yourself permission to have fun!
Give him even more space than you think he needs. He’ll notice that you’re aware of his needs and he’ll appreciate you even more! For instance, tell him, “Sorry, I can’t hang out tonight. Why don’t we meet up tomorrow?” You’ll pique his interest and you’ll actually get him to chase you.
