Check with mutual friends or look him up on social media to figure out where he spends most of his time. Geminis are typically pretty social, so he likely has a few favorite spots where you could casually run into him.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and thinking. He’ll be right in his comfort zone if you ask him a thought-provoking question about philosophy or world affairs. You might also bring up any topic that’s recently been in the news and ask his opinion on it—he’s certain to have one, and can probably argue the other side as well. Appeal to his dual-minded nature by asking him, “Do you prefer this or that?” on topics ranging from famous artists to favorite foods.
You might try a light, floaty floral dress in a more conservative cut. Pair it with some charming ballet flats and throw on a chunky cardigan in case of a chill.
Contribute what you know about the places he’s been and compare your knowledge to his lived experience. It’s a learning opportunity for both of you! If he ever remarks about the fact that you don’t tend to go off on adventures yourself, tell him you do all of your adventuring vicariously through him—he’ll be thrilled to think that you’re waiting expectantly for his stories.
Bring along your smartphone and download free apps that help you identify plants and animals you might encounter on your hike. Your intellectual Gemini guy will love this because it gives him an opportunity to learn something new.
He’s always making new friends, but trust him to stay true to you. He doesn’t enter relationships lightly and won’t stray—he just needs his freedom. If you’re a typical Taurus who likes to have her partner close by her side, this can occasionally be tough for you. Just remind yourself that he will be back and he’ll have exciting new adventures to tell you about.
Even if he knows that you don’t tend to play it fast and loose, he’ll appreciate the fact that you’re willing to let go a little when you’re with him. If you do need to make specific plans for something—say, a dinner reservation or concert tickets—let him know about that commitment and keep everything around it loose. That gives him the opportunity to do something spontaneous.
For example, if you’ve always wanted to remodel your bathroom, he’s the perfect person to take that on with. He also has a great eye for style and quality—you won’t overpay if you’ve got a Gemini reviewing your purchases. Keep in mind that you might lose his interest on longer-term projects. If something stretches out over longer than a week, he’s likely to get bored and you’ll find yourself finishing on your own.
Reminding yourself why he is the way he is will help you have more patience with him. For example, he’s indecisive because he wants to make sure he’s completely analyzed all sides of an issue before he makes up his mind.
For example, he might mention the idea of turning his spare bedroom into a library. When you show up with plans for shelves and decor, along with a budget and schedule for completion, he’ll be so glad he has you in his life. Taurus women are known for sticking with something to the bitter end. Take his ideas and run with them—he’ll be stoked with the results.
For example, maybe he has a dream to go backpacking around Europe or Southeast Asia. For a Taurus lady, this likely sounds awful—but you can monitor his finances, store his belongings, and take care of his pet while he fulfills his dream.
