If you already know each other, you might ask him to join you for a drink or dinner immediately. If it’s the first time you’ve met, it’s probably better to chat him up a little before asking him out. Virgos are typically pretty introverted, so he’s likely to be a little shy or withdrawn at first. It might take a little effort to get him to open up, but then, as an Aries woman, you’ve always loved a challenge.
He likes to debate issues, so he won’t necessarily take offense if you happen to disagree with him—just be prepared for him to question your reasoning. Your sign is ruled by Mars, the god of war, so of course, you enjoy some good verbal sparring.
It helps if you know at least a little about what he’s good at before you ask for his help. If he’s a computer tech, for example, you might ask him to fix a glitch with your computer. If you ask him to help you with something that he’s not particularly skilled at, you’re more likely to just make him feel bad. That’s why you want to do your homework ahead of time and make sure what you’re asking is in his wheelhouse.
This applies to your appearance as well. Virgo guys care a great deal about their partner’s appearance and expect you to be neat, clean, and well-groomed at all times. Even though you can be more casual, Aries, this is an opportunity for you to show him he’s worth the effort. Don’t be offended if he redoes or “corrects” something you’ve cleaned or suggests a better method of organization. He’s a perfectionist and focuses on details—he’s just trying to help!
If you have to, set a reminder a few minutes before you need to leave so you don’t lose track of time. If you are going to be late, text him immediately and let him know what happened. Virgo guys can be pretty forgiving—as long as it doesn’t become a regular habit.
He’ll be really excited when you mention that you’ve found a way for the two of you to help, and you’ll work well side by side. Since he tends to be more introverted, you might look for opportunities that don’t require a lot of outgoing social interaction from him. For example, the two of you might man a booth at a community fair—you could talk to visitors while he organized the pamphlets and took down people’s contact information.
This partnership also works because you tend to be a leader while he prefers more of a support role. For example, he could create a diet and nutrition plan for you and you could motivate him to push through extra sets.
Rest assured that Virgo is a guy who practices what he preaches. He has no problem being just as open and honest with you as he expects you to be with him.
For example, if you’re always on time when the two of you make plans, he’ll understand that you respect him and value his time. He’ll also understand how devoted you are to him.
As bold and confident as Aries women are, you’ll likely bring up relationship questions before he’s even seriously considered them. It’s fine to broach the topic—just don’t hound him about it. Let him know how you feel and say something like, “I know you have a lot to think about because you take our relationship so seriously, and I totally respect that. I just wanted to let you know how I feel. " He’ll really appreciate it that you understand his point of view.
You can set goals to cover any aspect of your lives together, including planning a vacation, finding a house or apartment, creating an investment or retirement plan, or even adopting a pet. While these sorts of projects are important for your relationship, it’s also not something you want to force. If you’re just making up things that neither of you really needs, you’ll both get frustrated and abandon the project, then you’ll be right back where you started.
