Blatant flirting or showing off for another woman—AKA betraying your Scoprio’s confidence—is a deal breaker for her. Aquarians are naturally detached and helpful people, which might get mistaken as flirting by your Scorpio woman. Reassure her frequently that she’s the only one you’re in to.
“I just got a promotion last month. It’s been fun taking on a leadership role. ” “In college, I was the NCWA wrestling champ. ” “I’m working on getting my nonprofit off the ground. We’re applying for NFP status next week!” Scorpios are aggressive people that want to go get what they want. They’ll do whatever it takes to fulfill their desires. If you can hook her interest, that means she’ll go out of her way to be with you!
Try an unconventional first date idea like going to a flea market, taking an art or cooking class, or bouncing around a trampoline park. She loves all things mysterious or spooky. Try a ghost tour, a niche museum, or taking a walk through a cemetery (some of them are really nice!). A bar or restaurant with a unique or secretive atmosphere will appeal to her too. Try a speak-easy or going to a club where you need a password to get in.
“What do you think we should do this weekend?” “You pick the movie tonight. ” “Hey, what should I wear to Jen’s party next week?” Her love of being in charge applies to the bedroom too. If your relationship has gotten physical, try role playing and exploring different power dynamics to spice things up.
“I’ll tell you about my most embarrassing moment…next time. ” “Long story short, I’m terrified of raccoons. I’ll explain later. ” “My wildest night out? That’s a story for another time. ” Don’t share much (or any) information about your past dating experiences at first. A Scorpio woman is suspicious and if you bad mouth an ex, she’ll think you’ll do the same to her too. Scorpios sense and see people very clearly and it makes them a little quixotic. Be real and genuine about who you are, even if you’re trying to be a little mysterious.
She’ll be intrigued by anything uncommon you enjoy, like a really niche favorite author or a love of fostering local wildlife. Tell her about anything rebellious you’ve done or protests you’ve gone to. She’s got a rebel streak herself and finds someone who doesn’t fit the mold attractive. She likes control but appreciates a strong personality that can challenge her. Be confident and unintimidated to show her you have a strong sense of self.
If there’s something you can’t or don’t want to tell her, just say you’re not ready to fill her in. She’ll respect your honesty and you can open up to her at your pace. She’ll always prefer to be in the know and hash out an issue than to find out later you’ve been withholding something from her. Scorpio is a very tense sign. She won’t relax around you until you’ve shown you’re accountable, upfront, and trustworthy.
“Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?” “I’m here for you if you need anything!” “I’m sorry you’re going through it. Let me know when you’re up to hanging out. ” Don’t tease her or try to ease her out of a slump with humor. She’ll interpret it as uncaring or a betrayal. Air signs are more emotionally detached than water signs. Even if you don’t understand why she’s upset or emotional, continue to support her and be patient.
Respecting a Scorpio woman’s obsessive need for privacy and control is very attractive to her. As an Aquarius, you need space as well. Stay somewhat aloof so she thinks about and misses you while you’re apart.
Stay flirtatious while she susses you out. Sensual looks and touches, combined with your air sign wit, are very alluring to her. Slowly build trust with her through gestures of devotion—listening to her, trying new things together, respecting her privacy—than cutesy or sentimental acts.
“I’m open to an LTR with the right person. ” “I’m looking for a woman to settle down with. ” “I’d like to find someone who gets me and who wants to stick around for a while. ” Aquarians blend love and friendships, so there may not be a clear line where one ends and the other begins. Think hard about your feelings toward your Scorpio woman before pursuing her seriously.
